Drowning in Language Immersion? Blame society.

Feeling like you are drowning in language immersion, feeling overwhelmed?

Neuroscience of Immersion vs. Non-Immersion for Adult Beginners in Language Learning

Let’s talk about something that comes up a lot: immersion-based learning versus non-immersion approaches for adult beginners learning a new language.

Why am I talking about this? Three reasons:

  1. I see this question debated often in my expat circles, adults starting out in a new language. 
  2. I’ve lived the question myself. I began learning French as an adult (at 18). Today, I’m a French teacher with a Master’s in Teaching French as a Foreign Language (FLE français langue étrangère). I care deeply about how adults actually learn languages—not just in theory, but in practice. 
  3. There’s a HUGE piece of language learning that rarely gets talked about—the role of your conscious and subconscious in the process.

Let’s be clear from the start: everyone is different. I’m not here to hand out cookie-cutter advice so you can go herded into so and so’s language program like cattle. I want to offer a breakdown—and maybe a new lens—that helps you tune into what actually works for you

My goal is to bring in what I’ve studied, lived, and taught over 15+ years so you can sharpen your own approach to learning a new language, especially as a beginner, and make the best language learning choice for you, usable even in self-study. 

What Is Language Immersion?

First, let’s define some terms:

  • Immersion-based learning: Learning through full exposure to the target language, often without translation or explicit grammar explanations. This could mean living in a country where the language is spoken, or being surrounded by the language in everyday contexts.
  • Immersion-based classroom learning: A method where the teacher emphasizes the target language only, relying on visuals, repetition, and context to drive comprehension.
  • Non-immersion (explicit or traditional) learning: A structured approach where the language is taught through explanations, often in the learner’s native language. This includes grammar rules, vocabulary lists, translations, and comparisons.

The debate I see usually falls into two clear camps:

  • Those who say immersion worked for them and is the only way to learn authentically.
  • And those who say immersion didn’t work, especially at the beginning, because it felt like being thrown into the ocean, and then taught how to swim.

Now let’s focus for a moment on the second group—those who say immersion didn’t work for them. I want to validate their experience.

Why Language Immersion Fails Some Adult Beginners

Many adult beginners say they feel lost in language immersion settings. Why? Because there was nothing to hold on to. No vocabulary base. No grammar scaffolding. No reference points. Just a flood of input that felt overwhelming, confusing, and too often discouraging.

You’ve also probably heard that immersion mimics how children learn a language—through passive exposure and repetition in real-life situations. But unlike kids, we’ve got fully formed analytical tools, metacognition, and an instinct to make sense of everything by linking it to what we already know. That can be a strength—but it can also be a trap. This drive to “connect the dots” can slow us down, keeping us stuck in our heads instead of letting the language land in our bodies. (More on this juiciness below.)

Another challenge? Adults often don’t have the time or safe environment that true immersion requires. 

As an expat, you’re managing work, family, and navigating unfamiliar systems in new country—all while lacking the invisible “cheat codes” that come from growing up in that culture. 

When daily interactions feel like constant struggles, it’s only natural to shut down, withdraw, or avoid speaking altogether. Add to that an immersive learning environment that feels unnatural—filled with incomprehension and lacking constructive support—and growth becomes nearly impossible.

This is where I really want to speak from the heart.

I learned French beyond the so-called “critical period,” I understand the pain and frustration of trying to operate in a new language without enough tools. It’s real. It’s discouraging. And it can make you feel like a failure—not because you’re incapable, but because the method didn’t meet you where you were. 

The Role of Left-Brain vs. Right-Brain in Language Learning and Immersion

The dominance of the left brain in how we approach learning. 

What if where you were was the result of society’s pressure on us to be analytical and active, as opposed to open and receiving? 

Let me explain.

The left brain (or more accurately, left-brain mode) is logical, detail-oriented, focused on structure and certainty.

The right brain (or right-brain mode) is intuitive, holistic, embodied. It processes in context and is comfortable with the unknown.

For the past millennia, society prioritizes strategy and strategic thinking. We often mistake it for instinct—but it’s actually a learned behavior: one rooted in survival. The brain doesn’t retain new information in survival mode. Nor can it retrieve newly learned information when under pressure.

So, when we take an immersive class, we expect quick results. We want to measure progress. And that’s exactly where the problem begins: immersion is a slow, nonlinear process. But we’re not used to slow. In a culture that’s obsessed with metrics, the brain scans for signs of failure—rather than recognizing the quiet, foundational shifts that real learning requires.

If you’re overly anchored in left-mode thinking—strategy, structure, “getting it right”—then immersive learning (which demands flexibility, feeling, and letting go of control) can feel deeply uncomfortable.

The key here is to relax into it.

Side note: When I say “left” and “right,” I’m borrowing the framework used by neuroscientist, scholar and psychiatrist Iain McGilchrist, who explores and writes on the complementary functions of the brain’s hemispheres—not as isolated regions, but as ways of experiencing the world. It’s the balance, the relay between these two modes, that creates learning and growth.

When Language Immersion Works Best

My official stance as a language teacher?

Yes, immersion has the greatest long-term impact on the brain and memory system—even for total adult beginners. Why? Because immersion activates the subconscious, the right-brain mode, which is where deep learning and integration happen.

The conscious mind only knows what it already knows. But the subconscious is the soil where new connections take root. 

That said, if you had a negative experience with immersion, here’s what might have been going on:

  • The language immersion wasn’t designed well. You may have had a poorly trained teacher or were in a rigid, joyless system—often still the case outside of the more progressive learning environments.
  • Your cognitive wiring leans more toward the left mode. You may need a clearer scaffolding of rules and patterns before you feel safe enough to “let go” and absorb intuitively.
  • Our culture prioritizes left-brain thinking. Strategy, structure, and “knowing” are rewarded, while right-brain ways of being—feeling, flexibility, uncertainty—are undervalued. Immersion may have felt too unstructured leaving you emotionally vulnerable and feeling wholly uncomfortable.
  • Right-brain thinking feels unnatural–because it’s untrained. From an early age, most of us are funneled through systems that develop analysis, categorization, and measurable output. But right-brain learning—where intuition, sensory integration, and embodiment live—isn’t typically nurtured in academic or professional settings. So when a method asks you to rely on it, it feels foreign, even threatening.
  • You were overwhelmed on all fronts. When you’re an expat, immersion in both language and culture at the same time, as a result of living in a new country, without emotional safety or support, may have pushed you to retreat into familiar, translation-heavy methods that offered a (false) sense of control.

All of these points, aside from the second one, are the result of society’s pressure on our brains to be strategic, when we all know that the language ability truly shines when you’re relaxed. (This is the same reason why you feel more fluent in a second language after a glass or two of wine.)

A Balanced Approach to Language Learning

So, where does that leave us?

Immersion is powerful—it gives us authentic context, real-time feedback, and deep cultural insight. But it’s not black or white.

The most effective approach in today’s world? A balanced one—one that respects the value of immersion and also provides adult learners with the structure, vocabulary, and confidence you need to make meaning out of what you hear and experience.

Language isn’t just absorbed (right-mode); it’s also constructed (left-mode). That’s not a flaw—it’s neuroscience.

Tips on How to Improve your Immersive Learning Experience

So, given what we know about the benefits of immersion—but also the importance of structure and intentional learning—the best language classroom for you is likely an immersive one where the teacher also provides the safety and scaffolding you need to succeed.

So, how can you make the most of this experience? Try these strategies to make immersion more effective and less overwhelming:

1. Set Micro-Goals for Each Immersive Session

Instead of trying to understand everything, focus on one element per session: verb tenses, vocabulary related to a topic, or even just pronunciation patterns. This keeps your brain from cognitive overload and supports better encoding.

2. Repeat and Shadow

After class or after hearing target language speech (on TV, in a podcast, etc.), repeat short phrases aloud—this is called shadowing. It helps improve pronunciation, rhythm, and listening comprehension by training your brain to mirror real speech.

3. Label Your Environment

If you’re living in a country where the language is spoken, label items in your home with their foreign-language names (sticky notes work great). This turns passive spaces into constant input zones, reinforcing vocabulary effortlessly.

4. Use “Language Islands”

Practice speaking in specific situations (e.g., at the bakery, the post office, on public transport) where the vocabulary and phrases are somewhat predictable. This reduces anxiety and strengthens situational fluency.

5. Limit Translation

Resist the urge to translate everything back into your native language. Use images, gestures, or context clues first. This builds direct neural pathways between the concept and the new language—key for fluency.

6. Track What You Don’t Know Yet

Keep a “confusion list” alongside a vocabulary journal: expressions, sounds, or sentence patterns that confuse you. Bring them up with your teacher or research them later—these are exactly the moments your brain is trying to grow.

7. Use All Your Senses

Adult brains benefit from multisensory input. Don’t just listen—touch, act out, draw, or move around if you can. Associating new language with body movement or visuals improves memory and recall.

8. Trust the Process—Even When It Feels Uncomfortable

Remember: society trains us from a young age to rely heavily on logic, structure, and analysis. This can make immersion feel disorienting or even “wrong” at first—especially for adult learners who are used to being in control and understanding everything right away.

But this discomfort doesn’t mean you’re failing. It simply means you’re engaging the other side of your brain—the intuitive, pattern-seeking, emotional side—which is essential for real language acquisition.

So give yourself permission to sit with the unknown. Let go of perfection. Language immersion often feels messy before it becomes fluid. Trust that your brain is absorbing more than you think—and give yourself the space and time to get comfortable with the uncomfortable.

From my Foreign Language Teacher Toolbox

And here’s where I’d like to add something from my teacher-kit.

There are tools that reveal how you in your uniqueness thinks—your cognitive tendencies and potential vulnerabilities. One such tool I use in my classroom is Human Design. It helps me tailor the learning experience of each of my learners’ unique mental wiring, and I’m looking forward to sharing more about it in future posts.

So, what worked—or didn’t—for you as an adult beginner?
Did immersion empower you… or overwhelm you?

Feel free to reach out. I’m excellent in a crisis. 😉

Sincerely, Ashley—your foreign language crisis manager. 

Le Onze mai

I took a year hiatus to focus on teaching my English language courses. However, this pandemic has made me rethink what it means to be an expat. I am thankful to be living in France for many reasons. The food, the culture, their beautiful language and capital city… and their solidarity on healthcare. I am anxiously awaiting May 11th, le fameux deconfinement, like so many of us expats here in France.

I am a member of many expat groups in France and in Paris. It has been a scary time for so many of us. We are learning on the fly how to navigate French unemployment and the healthcare system, reading up on contractual employee laws, the fine print of our internship contracts, making sure we are following the government’s recommendations and orders on social distancing. Many of us had no choice but to leave the country and go back stateside. Many of us are out of work. Many of us are out of school. Many of us have loads of free time and a lack of income.

I have also seen that we are reaching out to each other. These expat forums have become the place to go for much needed laughs, support, airing of grievances, memes, and information. In my personal opinion, les grèves de 2019 was just a practice run for these forums! It was a warm-up of moral support. I will never forget this “updated” psuedo Plan métro de Paris shared this past December by a member that got an honest to god laugh out of me. (Hint, these are the only two automatic metro lines in Paris, so they’re the only ones that still worked.)

I am thankful for and proud of my fellow expats. What we are all living through at this very moment has made me think about all of you brave beings out there. It takes a lot of grit to live in a foreign country in a second language. And now the times we live in demand even more.

Simply contact me. I would love to get in touch and help you in your language learning and help build your French connection. It’s always good to keep the old friends, and make some new ones.

In the worst of times toward the best of times,

Ashley

Springtime (and cowboys) in Paris

[April 29, 2020 UPDATE: I wrote this exactly one year ago today. Now this post seems otherworldly. I had considered deleting it, as it doesn’t fit with the current mood. However, we will soon find our “normal” again, so I am leaving this post up as a sign of the hope on the horizon.]

With spring finally here, this first blog post feels quite in line with the new hopes and adventures that come with beautiful weather in such a beautiful city. A quick Google search of “springtime in Paris” gets nearly 17 million hits, and there is an infinity of songs by that name for a reason!

I’ve started a new habit this year–and I’m a bit ashamed to admit it. In all my years living in France, I have finally gone and made purchases at the local marché, and now I go once or twice a week. This is huge! 

You must know; I have been to this marché dozens of times before. I’ve explored and window-shopped. That’s all it was ever going to be for me because it’s just so involved. After mulling over “why” for a while, I think I’ve figured it out… Having to interact with a third party that wasn’t a plastic shopping bin and a curt exchange with a cashier in order to pick out and buy a carrot seemed like, 1) too much work, and 2) too many opportunities to gaffe.

The first is the stereotypical American in me; things need to be done fast and convenient for my schedule. The Carrefour next door being open seven days a week (and until 9pm–what luxury!) speaks to this American and makes a very tempting argument. 

As for that second hurdle, mind you, I speak French and am a fluent navigator of French culture and customs. So then why was the market on my radar as a non-option? Partly because starting a new routine is hard. But it’s also due to another reason, and one that this language nerd finds more interesting; it’s the result of an irrational manifestation of anxiety, doubt, and sometimes even fear. Second language researchers rather clinically refer to this manifestation as the affective filter.

Stay with me here and think back to your time in foreign language class. 

More often than not, you chose to save face and not speak up instead of stringing together a sentence in French or Spanish at the drop of a hat. You know you could do it, but what if…? And maybe for you it wasn’t in a foreign language class, maybe it was math or science, or that time you had a great idea for a project but didn’t share it at the meeting. In life, too often, we choose to protect ourselves–our affective, or inner, selves–and once the filter is saturated by stress, that’s it. You’re done for the day.

Say you do speak in French, or in that meeting, and you make an error or it’s poorly received. Now you’ve got to sit there for the rest of class, the rest of that meeting. This is thaat feeling, this is your affective filter. Now it’s full and now you’re done. So what to do about it? A classroom with a positive learning environment is the place to be! 

My program addresses the affective filter thanks to how I built the curriculum and how I structure our lessons. I check in with you several times over the course of the session. And class is a space where mistakes are welcome, even celebrated (because mistakes zap your working vocabulary and memory into gear). Please check out my program page to see more information about the program and class structure. 

Okay, so that’s in the classroom, but what about my day-to-day life in France?

Living in a new country often leads one to create a comfort zone that we don’t budge from. Come on, we’ve already moved to another country, and now you’re saying we’ve got to branch out even more and on the reg?  Well, yep, if you want to get to where you want to be in the language. And yep, I’m guilty of it, too.

If I fell into this mindset with regards to my local market, someone who knows about and addresses the affective filter every day in class, I know the 15,000 American expats and 50,000 British expats in Paris do, too, yet they are not aware of it.

My program addresses this in two ways. 

First, you cannot address a problem that does not have a name. (Hello, affective filter. I see ya there!) Together, we look at this feeling and analyze it away.

Second, we improve fluency, and with improved fluency comes confidence 🙂 

I can help you overcome this affective filter, that self-doubt, the hesitation to interact.

Expats are this city’s cowboys and we’re on this new frontier because we love it, we are energized by it, it excites us and makes us tick. It’s what we brag about to our friends and family back home. You’ve got this. You just need the right tools in order to speak French, and speak French confidently. 

Doing my food shopping at the market is now my new most favorite thing to do. My meal planning has had such an inspirational boost, and my cooking has never been better. PLUS, I feel more connected to my neighborhood. The market works better than a hot cup of coffee to get me up early on Sunday mornings. 

A small change to my way of thinking has me feeling better than ever about my life in France. I want to share this feeling with you.

Let me teach you my second language lifestyle to learning French.

Feel free to send me an email or leave a comment to ask me where your (cowboy) journey can begin.